Ass – the other vagina. This kinky alternative is really making waves in the sex world. Once an anal orgasm is experienced, most women will become instant fans. Activate billions of nerves that normally don’t get involved and give a full body orgasm that will not be soon forgotten.
Problem is, many women are not comfortable with this…and some men. Perhaps they think it’s a homosexual activity, maybe they think it’s dirty or maybe they just think God and Jesus give a shit what they’re doing in bed. Either way, some women are just not willing to try it.
The other problem is that some guys’ dicks are just too big to be fitting in there without a great deal of discomfort. Hey guys with big dicks – you don’t get to have it all, sorry.
But for those guys who are not packing heat there is absolutely no reason why you shouldn’t be able to enjoy this alternative to vagina every once in a while and get her to enjoy it as well. Just follow these guidelines.
First of all, the woman needs to be relaxed. If she’s super uptight about the whole thing then just slow everything down and get her nice and aroused. The more aroused she is to start out with the more relaxed her anus will become. Or just get her drunk.
Also, she needs to have taken care of business, if you know what I mean. There cannot be a bunch of feces sitting in the rectum or it’s not going to turn out well for anyone. There needs to be some planning before this can happen and hygienic matters tended to.
Then, you need to warm her anus up. This isn’t necessary if your penis is not that much bigger than a thick poop but it’s still the polite thing to do. Either use a finger, lubricated of course, then move up to two fingers or else just use a dildo that is skinnier than your dick.
The most important part of all is the position. So many guys think that they can just bend a girl over, stick their dick in her ass and start pumping away. It’s no wonder that so many millions of women refuse to try anal again after having experiences like that. Doggy style is not the position to do anal in. It’s all about the froggy style baby. If you don’t know what froggy style is then you didn’t read ‘Major Positions.’
Froggy style is perfect because she gets to truly relax while laying flat on her stomach. In doggy style she is clenched up and muscles are engaged in her hips, legs and core. Plus, the anus is in a somewhat stretched position and it is simply not the best choice for starting out. Once a girl has become used to anal and enjoys the whole sensation then any position is really a go, but she needs to get to that point first.
After she is nice and relaxed (a massage is a great way to start this out) then you need to get the proper lube. Check link below.
While she is in froggy style it is very important to have a pillow underneath her hip to prevent lower back pain.
Once you have warmed her anus up with finger(s) or small dildo then it is time to enter her with your penis. This needs to happen slowly, do not force anything. Just keep constant pressure and wait. The other thing you want to do is position your penis in the proper place and then reach around to engage her clitoris. Better yet, put a couple fingers in her vagina, rub the G-spot and use your palm to rub her clitoris. This should relax her and make her unclench. Best of all is to get her to rub her own clit.
Another trick that may sound strange is to get her to ‘push out’ like she is going to the bathroom. Sounds romantic I know, but it’s effective.
Once the helmet has made it’s way through the castle doors you need to just stand pat. Don’t move. At this point you better be engaging her clitoris or things are probably not going to be all that pleasant for her. You should have a finger or two in her vagina, rubbing her G-spot, and also engaging the clitoris directly, then just slow down and wait for her anus to relax.
Once she starts to relax then you can start to move, SLOWLY. Slow is really the key to everything here. Again, once she has become used to anal and likes the whole thing then it can speed up a little bit but you need to get those positive connections made first.
Once she is loosened up and relaxed then it is no different than any other sex. Difference being that you need to make sure to stimulate the G-spot and clitoris. The nerves in the anus are directly connected to the clitoris but they need to be woken up first. Once those nerves build a really strong connection and they remember that they are buddies then it takes less and less to stimulate orgasm from anal. In fact, once you give a girl her first anal orgasm then those nerves should really be raring to go and many women can start having anal orgasms from anal sex alone without any direct stimulation of the clitoris.
The last thing to think about is where to cum. It can be uncomfortable for the woman to ejaculate in her rectum and the polite thing to do is pull out. When you cum inside there can be quite a bit of mess and/or explosions. Really, the best thing is to just pull out or else ask her if she wants you to cum inside of her. Sperm has been scientifically proven to contain hormones that are addictive to humans so some women really want you to cum inside of them and get upset if you don’t. So, just ask her.
All of that being said, anal sex can get messy from time to time. It is an incredibly intimate thing to do with a partner and there needs to be a lot of trust…or like I said before, you just need to be drunk. If accidents do happen then it is the man’s job to reassure the woman that everything’s alright. Regular sex can get messy, let alone anal sex. If all the proper precautions are taken and nothing is rushed then there’s no reason that anal sex can’t be thoroughly enjoyed by both partners in a relatively hygienic manner.
One final thing – if your penis isn’t overly large and she is still in a lot of pain despite taking it very slowly and warming her up properly then there’s a good chance that she has hemorrhoids. Not an easy thing to talk about but find out if she sometimes has blood in her stool and that will tell you for sure whether she has hemorrhoids. These little buggers are truly the enemy of anal sex and it will most likely be off the table until she can clear that problem up…not an easy thing to get rid of either. But you must persevere as a Rear Admiral and know all obstacles in your path to anal orgasm or you will not reach the final rank of Orgasm General.
This is so much fun to talk about don’t you think? 🙂